The joy of following
I lead most of the time I dance tango. I practice my follower’s skills in practicas. In milongas, I will sometimes follow in playful roles swaps with some lady friends.
I love to follow. It has been a process of re-discovering the dance. It made me gain much more appreciation for the dance and in particular, for how a leader can make a dance wonderful.
After reading this entry from tangopilgrim I realized why I love to follow. While leading I always need to be ahead of the follower and the dance in some ways, as a follower I release myself from all that and focus on the present. And the present only.

You asked me days ago “Do you find hard to practice with followers that don’t tip you over? “. My answer is ” Every one is responsible of your axe. If my followers is disconneted for my embrace, i can´t pivot”. But I only said this to “some lady friends”.
Practice,practice, practice and patient, patient, patient….
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Tango Padawan Reply:
June 22nd, 2010 at 4:30 pm
Thanks for the follow up Francisco, I’ll do my best.
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